I won't talk too much about cancer, chemo or anything related to TK's condition in this post. However, I do want to share a few things I did to prepare for any unexpected situations. These may sound like no-brainers but keep these in mind, especially if you're new to caring for someone going through chemo.
1. Plot a route to an ER near you.
Take 5 mins today to memorize where your nearest ER is. Map the route and look for alternatives if there's traffic. Calculate driving time. You don't want to fumble with your phone to get directions. Know it before hand! Practice the route if you need to.
2. Keep your gas tank full.
Don't procrastinate. Get gas when you realize you need it. Don't put it off. You'll be fretting big time if your car is on empty as you're speeding to the hospital.
3. Keep your mobile phone charged.
Again, don't procrastinate. Keep your phone charged. If you make a visit to the ER, expect to be there for at least 4 hours. You'll need your phone to make calls, research on the internet, navigate, etc.
4. Stop recreational alcohol drinking (or minimize it)
This was hard for me because I love wine. However, you don't want to be buzzed if you need to take someone to the ER. Take it easy. Don't drink to a point where you can't drive unless there's someone else nearby who can.
5. Get life insurance.
I got life insurance for myself immediately after we learned of TKs prognosis. If something happens to me while TK's going through treatment, it could be even more life threatening to her. Medical insurance can be affected, bills can pile up. She needs to be financially protected if I'm not around to protect her.
6. Stay Healthy.
Keep working your day job. Keep doing a good job. Keep exercising, keep a balanced diet, sleep well. Stay mentally healthy. You need to stay in top shape to support your spouse.
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